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more than that, he will ask me to surrender my hands behind my back and he holds me hands so that I use his strength as leverage as we engage in thrusting. The dynamics are so very white hot. Of course he can smack my bottom if he chooses, or reach forward and own my breast. It's all his and that is the energy we both understand and feed off of. I take pride in exciting him. It does not make me more dominant if I am the one leading a sexual moment. It is just me stoking the fires. And his excitement is equally mine. And mine his. It's not about positions. It's about the exchange.
Blush
by Blush on 2005 Jul 13 - 21:26 | reply to this comment The Missionary Position While I agree with much that you say Sarah when you say a Taken In Hand woman has no inner conflict regarding masculine power, I really must say that having sex in any position has little to do with dominance and submission in my mind at all. It is about having sex in a way that is most pleasurable to both of us, fun and enjoyable. It is about intimacy between the two of us. I really give little thought to his dominance when he is on top, I do love his power and strength and the idea and feel of penetration.........but I think most women would, we are built that way. I just do not think of it in terms of dominance........I mostly think of it in terms of sharing of ourselves in the most intimate way humanly possible in a physical sense. What I truly cherish is that he only does this with me and only will. We have so much fun and delight in each other little thought is given to much else. So the whole focus on which position is more dominant or even if I want him in a dominant position and me in a submissive one is really irrelavant to me. I just want to enjoy the time we do it together totally.
I think Friday and other women who tried to analyze it all to such a degree were simply not happy with men or relationships with them, therefore they needed to see it in a different way.........I understand that.......but women who are happy with men and do not feel subjugated to them have little need to do this. The position you take during sex is for pleasure, for the both of you, and you can change it if another one feels better. It is really as simple as that. Caring for and being willing to please your partner is not a one way street and both need to respond to the requests of the other, and listen and give things a go, or try to see if it will work for the two of you........if not you can change it. Whereas I do understand the fantasy of being taken,and it can happen at times, sex is generally a mutual activity at our house.
Annie
by Frank Nelson for annie on 2005 Jul 17 - 00:05 | reply to this comment
