https://castbox.fm/episode/Details-On-My-Upcoming-Guide-id4671896-id442402754 https://castbox.fm/episode/When-It-All-Falls-Down-id4671896-id442837103 https://castbox.fm/episode/How-to-Know-You%E2%80%99re-With-the-Wrong-Guy--7-Signs-He%E2%80%99s-Not-Mr.-Right-For-Dating-or-Marriage-id4671896-id442839011 https://devfolio.co/@okcupid https://noti.st/okcupid/J3Vjky/about-properly-educating-guys https://noti.st/okcupid/vNEXdN/why-you-arent-getting-better-with-women https://www.bookmess.com/t/68414 https://blog.naver.com/PostView.naver?blogId=freedating&Redirect=View&logNo=222572233602&categoryNo=1&isAfterWrite=true&isMrblogPost=false&isHappyBeanLeverage=true&contentLength=18999 As a young man, a date at the movies will put both people at ease and allow the situation to be less demanding of stressed conversation. Followed by dinner or another activity will allow them to converse after having relaxed during the movie. Also, the movie will serve as a conversational piece and a topic starter can be drawn from the film. This is why I would suggest a movie prior to another event. As you said, I agree that listing all of the movie times is a bit unnecessary. He could have just said let's do 10, if it doesn't work, let me know when works for you and maybe it'll work for me. She is definitely avoiding him because either she figured out that she only liked kicking it with him as friends after the date or knew before the date and thought she'd give it a shot. If he acted too interested, then it's a turnoff. It's all about the chase. One person always chases the other one more but it has to stop when one person acts too desperate because they just come off as weak. He needs to start avoiding her and what the fuck, feelings after this bullshit. It has happened several times to me. I would avoid the guys and could not understand why they kept pursuing me after I avoided them completely. It was a game for me, how long would they try without any provocation? I felt sorry for them but would stop contact with them and they would eventually stop or would have to spell it out for them that they were total stalkers.